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This website is a service for people who are seeking information about DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy).

This site was written primarily by PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN THROUGH DBT, not DBT professionals. For this reason, consider the source of any given document. We cannot give advice, but we can talk about our experiences on our DBT journey. In this regard, I hope we can help one another.


 


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If you are looking for a DBT provider in your area, you can also click here, to view resources set up before the above database.
 


If you are in a crisis, please dial 911. The website owner is legally unable to advise.
 


Using DBT Skills to Make the World a Better Place
Do you have children or grandchildren? I recently invented a game to play with my 14-year-old grandson. When he or I stops to use a DBT skill to communicate when we are frustrated with the other person, we take a quarter from the jar. When we don’t, we pay a quarter to the jar. Same goes for giving compliments or insults, self-degredation or “I can” statements. The possibility for riches is endless.


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Artwork by Eric Dietz, age 6


Site visitors,
Thank you for supporting this website for the past 11 years. Because of your input, exchange of information and donations, you are making a difference in the lives of many people.
- Lisa
 


Everyday DBT is a mix of the most requested information as well as my thoughts on ways to keep DBT alive in our day-to-day work.
 


Well Said!
Articles about DBT, Mental Health, BPD and related materials. This section represents some of my favorite internet authors whose writing is both helpful and conversational.
 


DBT Video Text is an unofficial text from videos by Marsha Linehan describing DBT skills. You can purchase the videos at this link to Behavioral Tech LLC.
 


The BPD Tool
A fun visual method for learning the DBT skills. The group also includes training and coaching. In this section, you’ll find a few examples from their website. Additionally, they have just published a fun and useful DBT Quick Reference Card that is free to download!
 


Diary Cards
Find a variety of Diary card formats that you can download and adapt to your needs as well as an explanation about the purpose of the cards and practical ways to use them.
 


DBT Skills (defined)
This is a brief overview of the skills. In-depth explanations will return soon.
 


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I haven’t forgotten about you. I’m working to create my first fair business tracking model for this website.  It was always my wish that that the site could be supported by donations alone. I am adapting to circumstances as we all must do. I appreciate your patience.
 


Questions and Answers
Email conversations about the many aspects of trying to use DBT skills in daily life. Some of the topics are: being effective, feeling good, invalidating environments and judgmental people.
 


Together we are making a difference for one another!


photography © Cecilia Mills


I recommend the following books for anyone who has BPD, their families and professionals.
Author and fellow BPD recoverer, Kiera Van Gelder has written an amazing insightful memoir called
The Buddha and the Borderline. For more information on Kiera and the book, click here.

The Facts: Borderline Personality Disorder by Roy Krawitz and Wendy Jackson was written by both a client and professional. The writing is very clear and accessible.


DBT Lessons were created by myself and other DBT participants based on our experiences of practicing the DBT skills.
 


Extras
The day-to-day stuff that works with DBT including affirmations, crisis strategies, cognitive distortions and more.
 


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Formal DBT Instruction
Please don’t be confused by the title, DBT Self Help. This site is not meant to replace formal DBT therapy. It is simply a place to find some helpful day-to-day DBT stuff. The materials here are suitable for refreshing or supplementing your DBT training.
 


For a Site Map, click here.
 


Wondering about long-term DBT?! If you are anything like Kiera Van Gelder and I were back in 2001, and you have been through DBT a few times and you are wondering, “How am I going to remember these skills long-term? How do I stay current?” Because there are no endless lifetime DBT groups. The answer is: YOU CAN GIVE BACK. When you help your peers on their journey, you help yourself. So if you have the technical skills to bring this site up-to-date, PLEASE, shoot me an email!


photography © Cecilia Mills


7/6/17 Update
I am looking to you, my DBT Peers to help me to update this website.

More than ANYONE else, YOU are the people who have come through for me over the years. I have received many good suggestions from people about getting technical help from volunteer organizations who are happy to support non-profit organizations with a good cause, like this one. However, here is WHAT I STILL NEED HELP WITH FROM YOU:

SOCIAL NETWORKING!!!!
Being an introvert myself, I simply do not have the temperment for Facebook, Twitter, PInterest, etc. What I need are people who have already graduated from DBT and are stable and have been so for some time who can monitor the social networking tools on a regular basis. If you think you would like to do this and you have already graduated from DBT and are stable please shoot me an
email.

Back in 2001, Kiera Van Gelder and I were racking our brains trying to think of ways to stay current with DBT long-term. So Kiera wrote the book, “Buddha and the Borderline” as well as doing MANY other things and I started this website.

WE FOUND that OUR way to “stay current” with DBT was to GIVE BACK. By doing everything we could to help our peers, it keeps us current.

But facts are facts. I had a traumatic brain injury in 2005. I handed the technical parts over to my highly technical son, but he died in 2013. That is why I am looking to you for your support.

SO, IF YOU WANT TO STAY CONNECTED TO DBT SKILLS BY GIVING BACK WITH YOUR TECHNICAL COMPUTER SKILLS, or YOUR SOCIAL NETWORKING SKILLS,
CLICK HERE. THANK YOU.

To read Part 1 of “Suffering” Click here.
Part 2 coming soon.


I wrote the story of what happened when my son drowned in Hawaii. I haven’t published it on this site before because I thought a publisher was going to purchase it. But that has passed and so I’ve posted the story on the “Well Said” pages if you want to know or you can Click Here.

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I so appreciate the love and support and condolences sent to me by many of you over the passing of my son. Your thoughts and prayers have made a big difference in my life.
 


If you would like to contribute or link to this site, please click here for more information.
 


Instant Mindfulness Movies
These very popular custom flash movies are aimed at helping people become more aware of the moment, calming the soul, changing mind states, or outlining the basics of a DBT skill, the following topics are currently available:
Be Mindful of Breath
Be Mindful of Feet
Be Mindful of Hands
River Rock Mindfulness
Be a Tree (the most popular!)
Radical Acceptance
Wave of Emotions
Turning the Mind
Visual Encouragement
Be a Flower
 


BTW: Thank you for your patience for the months of February - June 2017 when I was slow to respond. I was having surgeries on my hands.


Connecting Skills
This section is a list of ALL THE DBT SKILLS with links to every document on this website where there is more information about the skill!  It is very useful for navigating this website and improving your understanding of the skills.
 


BTW: NOAH Says HI! (-:


DBT in Spanish will soon be available on this site from the DBT course files of Rayencura Clinica in Santiago, Chile. While you’re waiting for the update, you can download them by clicking this link right here.


Elf Help
Abbey Press gave permission to reprint parts of the their Elf Help books. Their size and simplicity is deceiving. They have a lot to say despite their few words and pictures. A real joy to have on hand.
 


The fiber artwork featured in the banner was created by the site owner, Lisa Dietz. Click here to view a few more of her relevant artwork representing her struggle to overcome BPD.
 


Author Articles
The author of this website shares some personal experiences about using DBT as well as essays about dealing with suffering.
 


Flash Cards
There are several types of flash cards to help remind you of the DBT skills. Recently added are the cards I used as a participant with a way to print your own.
 


Dialectical Behavior Therapy is the brain child of Marsha Linehan, Ph.D. More of her work and information about about her ongoing presence in the DBT Community can be found at www.behavioraltech.org. The owner of this website as well as countless others owe her a debt of gratitude for her committment to people struggling with BPD.
 


This website was last updated on 7/6/17.
 



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Dennis Merritt Jones has been a been mentor to me since the publication of his first book, , “The Art of Being.” He expresses himself the way I would like to express myself. He takes many perspectives out there and he brings them all together and outlines them, showing how they all, ultimately, say the same thing. And he does it in a very conversational, matter-of-fact way. He is a Well Said! author on this site and I recommend his newsletter.

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